Thursday, November 6, 2008

Sad update but i am ok

An assignment is due on the 10th Nov, that explains why the poor time managment me has not been updating. Will try to do it soon.

I have been doing less blog hopping these days, and it was rather sad that one of them had no good news. She is a mother, with three boys, eldest 7, youngest one year old. Apparently from what i gathered, her husband did her wrong once, and i believed she gave him a second chance. However, as i read her blog again recently, it seems like the husband did her wrong again, and now she is trying to manage life without him. As mentioned by her, she used to be ferried around, and now she had to drive alone and it was very very different and sad for her.

Whenever i used to watch Chinese dramas with the wives still staying with the husbands despite being cheated or abused, i would always comment," Stupid women, just live on your own lah, why still stay with this type of idiotic men." As i grew older, have my own family, i realise that that is not stupidity, that is plain sacrifice, sacrifice for the children, sacrifice for their fear of the unknown future. I understand.

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